The Mid-Summer Marriage Amusement Ride

Awwww summer. Swimming pools. Mountains. Oceans. Hiking. Walking. Cycling. Roller Coasters. Driving. Here one day…there the next. And if the day allows it, you may even be able to relax a little. (Yeah, right!)

Yes, summer is a busy time of year. In fact, the past 4-5 summers for me have been busier than the other nine months of the year.  With all this busy-ness going on, how can a couple regularly focus on their friendship?  And why start now?  Why not begin in September, once the Summer officially ends?

Well, there are a number of reasons for a couple to focus on their friendship. We’ve already outlined some reasons on how to focus on Friendship all year long (this includes the summer months as well.)

But now that we’ve reached the 1/2 point of the summer, we thought it may be a good idea to have a fun Mid-Summer Checkup.  Here are a few suggestions that we hope will provide some Mid-Summer Amusement in your marriage.

Create a Summer Bucket List:

starsMaybe you haven’t gone hiking yet, or you’ve only had an opportunity to do it with the kids in tow, not on a friendly date.  Or maybe you’d like to stay up late stargazing one night.  Whatever it is, take a brief opportunity to write down three things you would each like to do before the end of the summer.  That’s SIX Bucket List ideas for the two of you.  Then be sure to put dates on the calendar as to when you can schedule them in.

Read a Marriage Book Together:

If you’re planning a week-long trip to the mountains, beach, or some other kind of travel plans, take an opportunity to read a Marriage book and discuss it. It doesn’t have to be a real brain-burner, and there are some options out there even hubby wouldn’t mind reading.

Begin Fun Conversations:

Take a few opportunities to answer some of the following questions. By simply answering one or two a day one day a week will help you both remember why you’re already best friends.

  1. The most fun I’ve ever had together was when we…
  2. The last time I laughed so hard that I cried was when…
  3. The one thing I love most about the time we spend together is…
  4. The one couple that has influenced us the most is…
  5. If I could travel with you anywhere in the world I’d go…
  6. If I could get you to join me in something outrageous (i.e. skydiving, bungee jumping, etc.) I’d ask you to…
  7. What I enjoyed most about our wedding day was…
  8. What I enjoyed most about our wedding night was…
  9. If I could do one thing to bring a smile to your face this week, what could I do?
  10. If we could have sex someplace other than the bedroom this summer, it would be…

Remember, you and your spouse have lots of time this summer to create purposeful opportunities to enjoy life together. Play together. Learn together. Love together.

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Feel free to answer at least one of these questions in the comments below:

  1. The most fun my spouse and I have had this summer is when we…
  2. The one thing I’m most looking forward to doing with him/her before the end of this summer is…
  3. Our friendship is important to us because…

 

4 thoughts on “The Mid-Summer Marriage Amusement Ride

  1. The summer around here has not been as relaxing as we had hoped! Thanks for the reminder that there is still time to redeem it. We are going on vacation the first week of August, so I have high hopes for some fun that week!

  2. Our God is Good All the Time / if we stop and smell the roses & not be soooooo caught up in life these days. Enjoy the relationship God has made for us – to the FULLEST !!!!

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